What does it take to u to be happy

As time goes by.. guess u come across so many things, lods of memories are made.. good or bad..yet u still move on. May be such is life bt sometimes you get cought in between the things where its so difficult to make descisions, isnt it? yet we try to hope till de end we would get what we want in our life. It is always scary to have that feeling that we would loose what we love de most; but when we loose we just loose. Many things in life are not planned really; isnt it? If u believe in god... there is always a good reason for everything. It hurts , i know but hope u understand. may be some one finds happiness even with the fear of loosing. Or sometimes even being un_noticed. It is there for u somwhere the thing called happiness, itz just way of life de way things are, hope u find it where it fits the best. to u n always m still lookin for happiness even with fear.....